Big Feelings - Anger

Transcript of the sermon preached by Pastor Shawn Coons on March 19, 2023

Our theme for our big feelings series has been every emotion has a story to tell. Every emotion is a storyteller. There are no good emotions, there are no bad emotions, there are just emotions. Some may be more welcome than others. Some may be more challenging than others. I want to talk today about what happens once we listen to that story. Our theme for today is the emotion of anger, and I want to suggest that once we listen to the story our emotions are telling us, we still have a choice. We can go down any number of paths with that emotion. So when we listen to the story that our anger may be telling us, what path do we follow? Where will our anger lead us?

Robin read just a moment ago from Exodus and it was a passage where God gets angry, and passages where God gets angry are not uncommon in our Bible, Old and New Testament, when God gets angry with the Hebrew people at this point for making that golden calf, turning to worship an idol. God initially starts down a path, one path, a path of a violent destruction of his people. Moses talks to God and has God follow a different path, as we continue on in that passage. As I said a moment ago, anger is prominent in scripture. There's the anger of God. But if you read in the New Testament, you're going to find the apostle Paul as he writes letters to certain folks in various places, he expresses joy but Paul also expresses anger. We can read in the Book of Ruth, Naomi, who is angry at her situation. We read in the Book of Job, Job is angry. Moses gets angry.

In Judges 4 there's a very wild story of a woman named Jael and what she does in anger. We can read from the Psalms, there are a number of Psalms that express anger. Even Jesus gets angry as we read the gospels. There's points where Jesus uses such colorful phrases as calling a group of Pharisees you brood of vipers. He says angrily to Peter, "Get behind me, Satan." And then there is probably the most famous passage of Jesus' anger that we're going to read today, although it's found in multiple gospels, we're going to read it from John 2 starting at verse 13. And this is the beginning of Jesus' ministry, at least in the Gospel of John. This scene, this cleansing of the temple, takes place at the end of Jesus' ministry in the other gospels. But in John, it's at the beginning of Jesus' ministry right as the Passover is beginning

John 2 starting with verse 13, "The Passover of the Jews was near and Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple He found people selling cattle, sheep and doves and the money changers seated at their tables. Making a whip of cords He drove all of them out of the temple, both the sheep and the cattle. He also poured out the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables, and He told those who were selling the doves, 'Take these things out of here. Stop making my Father's house a marketplace.' His disciples remembered that it was written zeal for your house will consume me. The Jews then said to Him, 'What sign can you show us for doing this?'.

"And Jesus answered them, 'Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.' The Jews then said, 'This temple has been under construction for 46 years and you will raise it up in three days?' But He was speaking of the temple of his body. And after He was raised from the dead his disciples remembered that He had said this and they believed the scripture and the Word that Jesus had spoken." This is the Word of the Lord, thanks be to God.

So as I mentioned a moment ago, we find this story, this cleansing of the temple, in all four gospels. They were written, the gospels, at different times out of different circumstances. And there are many stories and sayings of Jesus that are unique to one gospel or just a couple of the gospels rather than being in all four. So the fact that we see this in all four gospels means this is a significant story. This is a memorable story. The gospel writers included it in their gospels. The church included passing these stories down. Why did it get passed down? Why do we remember this? Probably in part because Jesus gets angry. This is not the image of Jesus that we tend to have. We like the warm, fuzzy Jesus. We like the Jesus that welcomes all. We like that Jesus that says love your neighbor, love your enemy. But Jesus gets angry here.

Jesus gets really, really angry here. And it can be tempting to say, "Well, I'm not sure Jesus, you should have done that. That's a little overboard. I don't know, Jesus, that you should be getting angry." But remember, anger, not bad. Anger is not bad. Anger isn't necessarily good. It just is. And anger happens for many reasons. I want to suggest this morning we mull over two questions for when we get angry. Why are we angry and where will our anger lead us? Why are we angry? Where will our anger lead us? All right, so let's start with that first question. Why do we get angry?

There are all sorts of reasons we get anger and some of them are big, injustices of the world, and some of them are small, stubbing your toe. None of them are good or bad, they just are. My most regular source of anger is, I hate to admit it, is driving. I get mad at people when driving, especially if they're taking liberties or getting something I don't think they should. They're getting ahead of me when they shouldn't. But why? Why do I get angry when I'm driving? Well, I think if I boil it down to just kind of a statement it's because I feel like someone's getting something they don't deserve. Now, when I do this and someone merges late when all the rest of us have merged before and they're getting ahead and not waiting in the line of cars we all wait in, does that hurt me? No. Is it really hurting anybody else? No.

Maybe it's making us a couple seconds later but that is no big deal, and that's not really my reason for being angry. It's because they got away with something. Let's look at bigger reasons. Nobody mentioned politics as a source of anger, indirectly at least, but anger is so present in our political world and our political discourse for today. And all sorts of different kinds of anger for all sorts of different kinds of reasons, but turn on some of those news shows and it's just outrage. What's the latest reason to get outraged today? If you remember years ago there was the outrage and the anger when President Obama wore a tan suit on the wrong occasion. I'm not fashion conscious enough to know why that was a bad thing. I thought he looked pretty good, but I guess you don't do that.

But when we think about this political anger and the anger in our political discourse, is it anger that someone is getting something they don't deserve? Someone is getting something more than me? Or is it anger that someone is being hurt, someone is being denied justice? One of the questions we need to ask when we are angry, one of the stories we need to let our anger tell us, who is my anger for? Is it for someone in need? Is it for someone who is vulnerable? Is it for someone that needs protecting or am I feeling angry because I feel slighted? Not that that's always a good or a bad thing, but who is your anger for? Is it for, let's put it in biblical language, is it for the least of these? Is it for the marginalized? Is it for the oppressed? Is it for someone who can't defend themselves or speak up or is it for me?

And sometimes that can be us, absolutely, but a lot of times it's not. Jesus' anger, as we go back to the story in John 2, Jesus' anger was for people whom the faith was supposed to be protected. Jewish faith is all about caring for the marginalized, the poor, the oppressed, the refugee, the widow, the orphan, and Jesus' own faith, the temple, the centerpiece of the Jewish faith, was mocking those people, was taking the need of those people, especially the poor and impoverished, and turning in temple into a marketplace. And there were some unfair practices going on if we look deeper in to that. Jesus was angry because He saw the Jewish faith, He saw following God being perverted. It was supposed to be fruitful, it was supposed to be producing all sorts of wonderful fruit. In this story, I think it's one of the other gospels, I can't put my finger on it, it's sandwiched with this weird story of a fig tree Jesus comes across.

I don't know if you remember this story. Jesus was just kind of walking along with His disciples. It is not the season for fig trees to producing fruit, and so He sees a fig tree, He goes over to see if there's any figs on it. It's not that time of year, so it's not, and Jesus gets angry and He curses that fig tree. Later they come across it and it's withered and died. And that seems like a little, I don't know if you can get road rage while walking, but I mean we look at it and go, "It wasn't supposed to do fruit." It wasn't about the fig tree, it was about the message. It was about a bigger message of the people of Israel, of the Jewish religion as a whole at that point. It was supposed to be fruitful. It was supposed to be producing wonderful fruit and instead they did things like this in the temple.

And probably a good point as an aside, when talking about the Gospel of John, the author of Gospel of John uses the phrase the Jews a lot, and Christians throughout the centuries have done some pretty antisemitic things with verses like that. And more proper reading of that might be the Jewish authorities or the Jewish leaders, it was not Jews as a whole. I mean, Jesus was a Jew, so let's just put that there. Jesus was angry because the people who His faith were supposed to be protecting and lifting up were the ones His faith was stepping on. Cole Arthur Riley in her book, This Here Flesh, says that anger is never holier than when it acts in defense of the dignity of a person or a piece of creation, but you can be a person of profound anger without allowing it to eclipse your or anyone else's personhood. Every emotion has a story to tell.

Our anger rises at times when we perceive that something is not right and so we need to listen. We determine who is our anger for? Is it for truly someone in need, someone truly wronged? And that can be ourselves, and if it is, then what choice or what's the choice we have? Which path are we going to go down? We have seen one path many times in our history. We can go down the path of just blindly striking out, just going into a rage and just being angry at whomever comes across or being horribly angry and mean and even violent to people we think are the perpetrators or maybe not even, the people who are just in front of us. We've seen too many mass shootings in our country that have been the result of that. Put the January 6th protests in there. There are other protests that have turned from a peaceful protest to violence and destruction, treating others with contempt, a blind rage that spills into all of our interactions onto anyone in front of us.

Have you known, do you know, that person who's kind of always angry? That person who's just kind of simmering at this low level of anger and it comes out in all of their interactions, at work, in the family. They're dealing with some levels of anger and so you ask them and ask that question and you get this tone of voice or you get a response from them that is just attacking you and you know haven't done anything, but they're just so angry and they haven't really listened to the story. They're angry and they've chosen a certain path to follow that anger down. It's not the anger that's bad, it's the path we let it lead us down. Gandhi once said, "I have learned to use my anger for good. Without it, I would not be motivated to rise to a challenge. It is an energy that compels me to define what is just and unjust."

Brian McLaren, another Christian author, says it this way, "So yes, you bet I'm angry. It's my source of creativity. It's a vaccination against apathy and complacency. It's a gift that can be abused or widely used. Yes, it's a temptation, but it's also a resource and an opportunity as unavoidable and necessary as pain. It's part of the gift of being human and being alive. And if you're not angry, I think you should check your pulse, because if your heart beats in love for something, for someone, anything, you'll be angry when it's harmed or threatened."

In today's passage the disciples recall that scripture that says zeal for your house will consume me. Zeal is not a word we use very much anymore, and I think part of it is because we don't really associate it in a positive way. Zeal, another form of that word is zealot, and usually when we talk about zealot we talk about someone so blindly devoted to something they're just doing kind of extreme actions and usually not good. We hear the word zealot in the Bible. There's Simon the Zealot was one of the disciples of Jesus. That's a Zealot with a capital Z. The Zealots were a group within first century Judaism. They wanted to see a more military kind of overthrow of the Romans. Jesus got angry and when He listened to that anger He was moved to drastic action on behalf of those in need.

Sometimes it is okay for zeal to consume us as the scripture says, as long as it leads us down that path of standing up against what is wrong, what is unjust. Anger is not the opposite of love. Even when we are angry, even if it's a righteous anger, especially if it's a righteous anger, it calls for love. Methodist minister Steve Garnaas-Holmes says it this way, "Let the furnace of repentance refine your rage into desire of kindness for all. Some things need to be burned down but not people. Let nothing diminish your love for wrongdoers." That's hard. Let nothing diminish your love for wrongdoers. I mean, we can all think of those people that we're angry at, that we feel are just doing injustice in the world, that are doing wrong. And to hear let nothing diminish my love for them, I don't want to hear that. There are hard things in the Bible. There are parts of the Bible I don't want to hear.

There are parts in the Old Testament where God seems to encourage genocide. There's violence in the Old Testament. But maybe one of the most troubling things in the Bible for me that I don't want to hear is love your enemies. Why did you have to say that, Jesus? Even in my anger I'm called to love my enemies. How do we do that? How even in our anger do we continue to work with love? Well, don't be afraid of anger. Listen to the story it tells. Name it, feel it, name how it feels in your body, but then be aware you have a choice of what path to take. Nadia Boltz-Weber is a minister and author and speaker and prominent kind of personality in certain circles, and she gets a lot of internet trolls, if you're familiar with that phrase, people online who harass and then say awful things to her. She does not look like your typical minister. She's tattooed very heavily and just kind of looks a little bit alternative. But she writes how she has tried to learn to respond to her harshest and most mean critics online.

"Well, I'd like to say my first response to almost everything is screw you." She uses a different word there. "But I almost never stay there. But if I'm honest, I have to admit that I almost always start there. It's only by the grace of God that I ever move from my first reaction to something softer. But the older I get, the quicker that grace seems to come. Option one, take my hurt and pass it like a basketball either back to the person who hurt me or to someone more convenient, like the guy driving too slow in the left lane, or maybe my partner. Option two, perhaps I remember that no one who feels well loved, who is a psychologically integrated person, who has a happy life, would ever choose to send someone a message telling them they look like a freak and should get cancer. Someone has hurt them, and I know what that feels like. I'm never going to get this right, but option one feels like poison and option two feels like freedom."

It's hard to take option two. I mean, when someone is just so unjustly mean and cruel to us, it's hard not just to want to dish that right back like Nadia says, pass that hurt like a basketball right back to them. That's the poison. It's hard to say why would someone do this? They must have been hurt already. How can I love them? So I'm sorry I'm asking you to do the same thing. I'm asking you to do something really hard. Listen to your anger but don't let it overwhelm you. Act in righteous anger but act in love at the same time. I'm asking you to do that, but really it's God asking all of us to do that. Let me close with, I think this is again from the writing of Steve Garnaas-Holmes, and I think I put that in the bulletin at the end of it.

You can see Steve's writing... well, let me close with that, with his words. Let your rage be refined with sorrow. Out of the death of grief let passion rise, burning desire for love among all. Let that passion fuel your work for restoration. The fire of love be your courage to do justice, to love mercy, to walk humbly with God. Let us pray. God, we thank you for the gift of anger that when we listen to the story helps us to see that not everything is right. That helps us to move in love to work for justice for all. Let us listen to our anger and let it lead us down the right path. In your name we pray, amen.